The clothing designer says there should be no censorship of images in magazines and advertising. Check out the full post here.

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Our Favorite Blogs and Sites 2.13.2010

Who What Wear: Black + White Trend Report
Rue La La: Stuart Weitzman
New York Fashion Week: Mercedes Benz
Writer’s Digest: Tip of the Day
Fashion Week Daily: Daily Front Row
Flavor Pill: Daily Dose Pick – I Don’t Care About Your Band

Creative Community Links to Fashion  & Art

Posted on 13. Feb, 2010 by Editor Tamara Gold

Marymary, from the Creative Community Etsy, writes about the nominations of cutting edge designs. Fashion Week 2010, designers combine fashion and art.  You can vote for your favorite item for the collection.

Photo by OblivionClothing

Have a little fun this week and take RLR’s Valentine’s Day quiz.

Below are my answers!

1. I won’t be doing sugar this year. I’ve started J.J. Virgin’s Fast Track Program. And, she wouldn’t be lovin’ it if I snarfed down a box of chocolates.
2. I’d rather have a dinner party with my husband and a small group of friends that I love and adore.
3. Jeans and a really cool, red T-shirt that my daughter created.
4. Valentine’s Day Love-Luck. Love trying other people’s favorites. ( Not sure J.J. will agree with this one unless it’s healthy!)
5.  Construction paper hearts….which I’m going to put on my son, daughter, and husband’s pillow’s this year. ( I’d put them on my dog’s pillow, if he had one, assuming he could read them.)
6. I tell my friends & family I love them every chance I get. We all need to hear that we are loved, you never know when you’ll see them again. I don’t wait anymore to tell them I love them.

Enjoy your Valentine’s Day!

It’s in the quiet that we hear the answers. It’s in the moment of silence that we feel the knowing.

Are you able to sit down, quiet your mind and listen to your truth?

Today I turned off the stereo, ignored the phone. I sat down to find the stillness. A project needing to be finished, grabbed my attention. Another excuse not to silence my mind. Yet, the lack of outside noise did allow me to focus, to concentrate, to make serious progress toward the completion of a task at hand.

But, the truth is, I need to find time to listen to the quiet. I know I do. What about you?

Apparently, the Universe will find a way to get you to listen, even when you say you will, but don’t. In my life it always shows up the same way. I usually have to end up in the hospital, attached to tubes, plugs, machines…none of which are connected to my computer or my iPhone. I have no choice but to stay still. I even have to ask for a nurse or someone to help me go to the bathroom. Wow! Can you believe I’d manifest all of this to make room for quiet in my life?

This past week, I found a lump under my arm. It was 3:50 in the morning on February 3rd. I looked at the clock, and said out loud, “Are you kidding me?” My life shifted in an instant. In the stillness of the early morning, I stood, alone, in my kitchen and knew why this was  happening. It was time for me to slow down and reflect.
What is most important to me?  What is my soul’s purpose? What really matters? What am I doing with my life?

I’ve been hearing whispers for months, but keep choosing to ignore them. I tell myself, “I’ll start painting and writing as soon as I finish this next project, the next event, the next, the next, the next.” But, I haven’t.

My heart has been telling me to focus on my writing, my art, enjoy my time with my husband and kids, but I refuse to listen. I’m afraid to give up everything I’ve been creating and the business I’ve been building. I don’t want to look like I’m quitting. I find work harder, push more, in hopes that the more time I put in, the faster I’ll reach the finish line. And, then, I will have time for my writing, my art, my family.

I’m not trusting myself and my inner knowing of what is right for me. I’m letting other people’s whispers influence me, when I know, with all my heart and soul, their way is right for them, but not my authentic way. I honor their space, but must trust my intuition and my journey.

I love talking makeup, hair, and style. It’s what I’ve done for 25 years. But I know, none of it matters in the long run. It’s not just about the makeup, it never has been. It’s always been about so much more. Of course, there is a time and place for lip gloss, hairspray and shoes. But, they are not what make a beautiful life.

I’ve been gone too long….headed in the wrong direction. Or, maybe, the right direction, wrong road. It’s time for me to get back to what’s real. It’s time for me to get back to the core, to my authenticity. The woman who cries when she’s scared, the woman who knows she’s meant to paint and write, the woman who adores her children and is watching them grow up too quickly. The woman, who dearly loves and appreciates having a wonderful friend for more than 24 years and has been blessed to be able to call him “my husband” for 20 of those years.

I realized that I needed to listen to what I know I am meant to do. I see the potential in others, with or without makeup. I inspire others to follow their dreams, in high heels or sneakers. There is so much talk today about authenticity, personal branding,  and personal style. I’ve created an entire business which helps women see their real beauty, so that they can reach their dreams. But, in the midst of creating what I knew I could, a business about image and style, I set my dreams on the bookcase next to my desk.

Dozens of books on writing, art, creativity, inspiration, beauty and style stacked just inches away from me everyday. Thirty plus, years of journals, filled with writings, musings, sketches, quotes, images I want to paint. It seems like it would be easier to do what you’re comfortable doing. Just stick to what you know and all will be okay. Not so! In fact, it’s harder, and more difficult not follow your heart.

The Universe wants to get my attention. Tomorrow, I will head to the hospital at 5:30 in the morning. I know that no matter what happens, I will do what I must. I will do only what matters. I will listen to my heart. I am done pushing. I AM WRITING.  And, I’m letting go of the outcome. I’m letting go of whether it will be good, or whether it will matter, or whether it will make me money.

Clarity. Reality. Authenticity.

This is my new direction. We can create whatever we want or need in this lifetime. It’s up to us to make up our mind to listen and follow the whispers of intuition guiding us forth.

Living a beautiful life means taking care of yourself. Being true to what you believe. Living a beautiful life means trusting yourself and listening to your body. Living a beautiful life means following your heart.

Have you been setting a part of you on a shelf? What are you rescheduling, setting aside, deferring, or putting on the back burner?

I will do whatever I need to do to bring congruency into my life. I know I will march forth into the fear of the unknown, the uncertain, and embrace every moment, every smile, every whisper, every tear, every hug. And every little bit of laughter.

I hope you’ll do the same.

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Ready to pump up your look for a romantic evening? Check out this video from Smashbox to get the ultimate pucker.

The Spring runways were all about softly stained, satin-matte lips. Lori Taylor shows us how to get this ultra-feminine, romantic look in just a few simple steps using our amazing new Lip Tech. – from Smashbox

Click here to watch Smashbox’s Insider Secrets Video.

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. When you rise the the next level…you always walk in the door with incredibly groomed brows. Yes. It’s true. Look back in time and see that each Icon on the rise has gone from bushy to beautiful with one quick fix….groomed brows.

Last night at the Golden Globes, the A-list  beauties were groomed by Anastasia Soare, one of the most famous eyebrow masters around today.

You may not be able to get yourself to Beverly Hills to have the Master shape your arches, but you should make an effort to find a gifted eyebrow guru of your own…in your hood.

Wonderful groomed brows do make a difference. It’s the best place to start when you’re getting ready to saunter down your version of the red carpet.

Do you know how to groom your own brows? Do you have questions? Let us know! We’d love to help. Send us your Q’s at info@tamaragold.com and we’ll do what we can to help you rock it like a movie star at an Award Show.

I’m curious to see if we can take The redlipstick report to the street….and find people, real people, who are living inspired & creative lives everyday. The challenge will be how to document all of this, with one tool. My iPhone.

Love a challenge! Any suggestions on how I can get video interviews from iPhone to blog, or apps that can help make this work would be greatly appreciated.

Join me,  and listen to RLR’s January Spotlight Interview with Energy Coach and Body Brilliance Master, Krista Hearty. Krista reveals how you can focus  and tap into more creative energy in your life and business. She teaches actual breathing and grounding techniques during our interview and how you can start tapping in right now! Krista also shares a special offer for RLR readers that you won’t want to miss. Enjoy the audio interview. After you listen to Krista’s wonderful advice, you can reach her at www.yoga4entrepreneurs.com/discoverytamara.

1. Purchase the best quality you can afford. Good quality clothing will last longer and over the long run save you money.

2. Go for shapes and designs that are flattering on your body type. Stay away from trendy pieces that don’t do anything for your figure. Spend money on pieces that will be staples. Pick up a trend piece to add to your wardrobe for a season, but don’t break the bank on this item.

3. Look at color in a new way. If you usually play it safe by wearing only black and other shades of neutral, add color into the mix buy using your eye color. Buy a shirt in your eye color and notice how people compliment  you and listen to what you have to say.

4. Edit your closet. Get rid of anything that doesn’t speak to your soul, makes you feel sloppy, or doesn’t represent who you really want to be. Be ruthless. Too many clothes hanging in your closet can actually make it more difficult to get ready when you’re in a hurry.

5. Create a Style File. Look through magazines and catalogs and pull images of items you would like to own or ensembles you could duplicate on your own. Keep your Style File in your closet, in a binder, and flip through it whenever you need a little inspiration putting together a chic new look.

6. Be Creative. Mix and match pieces in a new way. Add a pair of texture tights, accessorize your outfit in a new way. Think outside the box. Outfits don’t have to be matchy-matchy. An unusual piece in the mix can add flair and interest.

7. Layer pieces to add interest to an outfit. A dress you’ve worn before will have an entirely different feel if you pair it with tights, add a short fitted jacket and a pair of boots.

Keep in mind that it should be fun to play with your style. If it’s not, you can hire a Wardrobe Stylist. Nordstrom’s Department Stores have a wonderful personal shopper system set in place.  Give them a call; make an appointment. You don’t have to spend a lot of money to have great style. Wear your clothes with confidence and remember, style is an every evolving process.